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There are two distinct methods that stand out to me in how you can ruin a song forever. Perhaps not “ruin”, it’s a strong word and it has a lot of negative overtones. Maybe a better way of explaining it would be to alter the meaning of the song forever, but I don’t think it quite grasps my point. Not even saying “how to get sick of a song” covers it. Sheesh, describing this is tough!

How about I just get to the nitty gritty and describe the methods.

1 – Set it as your mobile ringtone

You hear a new song on the radio and you L-O-V-E it. You have to hear it every day, and even several times in a row. Then you set it as your ringtone, and whenever you get a call you’re dancing away. Until you start getting too many calls or dodging phone calls, and you’re forced to listen to the song in its entirety because some idiot on the other end of the line hasn’t figured out they should hang up. You get sick of hearing the same chords, the same notes, and just wish it all away. Then you hear an awesome new song on the radio and the cycle repeats, but it’s already too late. You’ve ruined the first song. It’s forever linked in your mind with answering the phone.

2 – Hear it at a funeral

This is where the word “ruin” is wrong. It’s not ruined, it’s just that whenever you hear that song you’re forever going to think of that person and feel sad. The song “Lonely” by Akon will forever remind me of my friend’s mum, who had time to prepare for her passing (she had an incurable disease). She had asked her children to play this song at their funeral. It’s awful when a child outlives their mother, but at least they knew they were granting her wish. I couldn’t listen to this song for a long time after as I would immediately experience flashbacks to that day.

This morning I attended the send off of one of my friends after he was unfortunately involved in a violent car crash. Taken at 27, far too early. During the ceremony they played several songs, one while doing a particularly moving slideshow. As a result, in my mind he will be forever linked to the song “Forever Young” by Youth Group amd Sarah McLauchlan’s incredible song “Angel” (a nickname for my friend from his parents).

A long time ago I wrote a blog post with funeral requests for when I pass, inspired by the death of someone else I know. Now I’m re-thinking those selections, but only because of the link it will embed into the minds of anyone who attends my ceremony. I still want people to smile and dance and celebrate my life as opposed to cry and mourn, but whether those songs are the ones that I want people to remember me by, I don’t know.

Any other methods for how to ruin/alter a song? Any particular stories that spring to mind when you think of a specific song?

This is just after we arrived and before it had even rained for the day. We knew it was going to be a dirty, disgusting day.

Who went to see U2 in concert? ME!

On the 27th February, Brisbane played host to a number of bands and dj’s in the form of a music festival, Future Music. Headline acts included The Prodigy, Franz Ferdinand, Empire of the Sun and David Guetta, just to name a few. I attended the concert with Ravesafe doing crowd care, basically making sure there wasn’t anyone passed out or in any danger (whether it’s as serious as unwanted sexual advances, to simply dehydration).

The day started off shaky, when on the way to Brisbane I encountered some heavy rain on the highway. From there, the rain pretty much never let up, although there were a few moments of clear skies (albeit short lived). The festival was based at Doomben Racecourse, which being a race track meant the majority of outside areas was made up of grass. Lots and lots of grass. And when you combine grassy areas with rain, you get mud. Lots and lots of mud. By the end of the day I had mud up to my knees, and my white shoes had turned a dark shade of brown.

During the day we saw people mud wrestling, or kicking/throwing mud at each other. Patrons wearing thongs soon discarded their footwear, choosing to walk around barefooted instead. The roller disco that had been set up soon turned into just another dance party area, as the water deemed the roller skating surface too dangerous. There were rumours during the day that some bands were going to pull out due to the rain, but thankfully the rumours didn’t prove to be fruitful.

Earlier in the morning there had also been set up issues. From what I was told, the guy who organised the festival had also been responsible for a festival the previous weekend. When packing up the equipment to relocate it to the racecourse, it had all been put into the truck backwards. This meant that electrical equipment (usually the last to put up) was at the front of the truck. Due the rain during the week, they were unable to take anything out of the truck at the risk of getting the electrical gear wet and ruining it. By the time the festival opened, the setup team were approximately 3 days behind schedule. They’d had to block off almost 3/4 of the festival grounds (main stage and two of the minor ones) while they finished setting up all the gates and safety equipment. By the time the crowd were allowed through to those areas the festival had been going for almost two hours. The need to stick to the schedule meant that any performers on the closed stages for the first two hours missed out on having an audience. A massive shame for them, and all due to a simple packing decision.

With regards to performances, I really only got a chance to see a couple of shows. I made sure I got to see Franz Ferdinand, who were absolutely fantastic. It may have been raining, but it was worth it to see them. Thoroughly enjoyed it. Back in 2009, I’d missed out on seeing The Prodigy at Big Day Out. It had only been a month since my knee surgery, and they were in the Boiler Room (a great big tent). The crowd was so large, and I was a bit fearful of hurting myself so we passed on seeing them. I was determined not to let that happen this year, especially after I was berated by a friend, a diehard Prodigy fan. At Future Music, they were the last to go on the main stage which meant that space wouldn’t be an issue. It was still raining, but I was set up with my drizabone and ready to see them. While their music isn’t quite my scene, I can definitely appreciate their talent. They worked that stage SO hard, andthe crowd were definitely in the moment. A sea of people just constantly jumping and dancing, it was wonderful to watch.

One band I wasn’t impressed with was Empire of the Sun. I enjoy their music, and their film clips make it look like they’d be incredibly interesting on stage. But when I got there I was horribly disappointed. The lead singer basically stood at the microphone singing, didn’t really move, didn’t dance, and was outright boring. They had dancers with them on stage, but they were doing the same move for minutes at a time! It was a yawn fest. They looked fantastic, they were wearing some pretty elaborate costumes, but unfortunately the rest of the performance didn’t match up. Disappointed, I left after about ten minutes.

Overall, the day was pretty good. It was my first time going to a festival where it turned into a sea of mud and I thought I coped pretty well. The crowd were fantastic considering. We didn’t have many drug or alcohol incidents, and everyone seemed to be really enjoying themselves. Really, you can’t ask for much more than that. But maybe I’ll buy some gumboots next year, just in case.