Yesterday I wrote about being crook and being confined to bed. Unfortunately I awoke this morning to a text from C letting me know that he’s been suffering from hot and cold flushes, and at his worst cold flush he was wearing a massive FOUR layers of clothing and still shivering. This morning he was shivering, coughing and had chest pains so I urged him to go to the doctor immediately rather than be stubborn like me.
The outcome? He’s crook with the same thing. Oops.
I’ve been working from home today doing what I could, and having the odd nap when my head felt like it couldn’t stay upright anymore. But tonight I’m going to go over to C’s house, make some dinner and fuss over him a bit, before coming back home for the night. Whether it’s just a typical male not being able to cope with being sick I don’t know, but he definitely sounds a lot worse than me. I don’t even know if I’m totally up for going and visiting, and whether two sick people should even be hanging out, but I feel so guilty for passing on my sickness that I think that cooking and fussing is the least I could do.
Sharing a bed for the night isn’t an option by any means, and that’s just by going off my own experience last night. I would alternate between the hot and cold flushes (sweating so profusely to a point that at one point my entire body was one big sweaty mess) or awaken with coughing fits several times during the night. I know just how important rest is to getting better, therefore sharing a bed with me for the night isn’t something I’m willing to inflict on C. He needs his rest even moreso, since working from home isn’t an option for him. It’s times like this I love my job.
I would say that I should be nominated for worst girlfriend in the world, but I think it can be offset by the fact that he got a ticket to the NRL grand final for his birthday (just have to hope the right teams get through now). Plus I’m sure there are plenty of worse things a girl can do to a guy than share germs…right? It’s not like it’s an STD!
Still feeling pretty guilty though
